Monday, June 24, 2013

June 24, 2013 Focus Point

June 24, 2013
Focus Point

Before You Speak, THINK

I recently read a story of a father playing with his young daughter in the yard. The father picked up a dandelion that had gone to seed and turned into a white puff, and asked his daughter to blow on it. Sure enough all of the little seeds blew everywhere and they laughed together at how easy it was for them to scatter in a hundred different directions. Then the father asked her to go pick them all back up. She looked at her father as if he were crazy, and said "I don't know where they are!" Then the father taught an important lesson about the tongue. He told her that once we let words go out of our mouths, they are like the scattered seeds; we cannot get them back, no matter how hard we try.

This weeks message is to inspire our hearts in relation to the words that we use. Is what you say True? Withholding information, misleading others with our words, or a lie of course, takes a person away from truth not toward it. Does what you say Help others by lifting and building them? Is your communication Inspiring? Does it breath belief and encouragement into the lives of others? Is it Necessary, or best left unsaid? And finally is it Kind?

I believe that we can help create the environment around us by the words that we use and the tones which we choose. One day you will be only a memory for some people, do your best to make it a good one.

This week let's THINK. Is my communication:

True?
Helpful?
Inspiring?
Necessary?
Kind?

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